AUSTIN - In the realm of dating, is it true that you
shouldn’t judge a book by its cover? What about the story you hear from a
friend when she swears that her boyfriend was “love at first sight”?
But can the feeling of “love at first sight” come from simply
viewing a picture on Facebook?
A new dating application for the iPhone has hit the University
of Texas at Austin campus. This matchmaking application, called Tinder, uses
your location to find singles within a 100-mile radius of yourself.
Perhaps some students may find their classes more
exciting if they are matched with someone who is sitting in their same
classroom. Maybe even the dark-haired cutie in the seat behind them.
But the question is, is this app a path to true romance
or is it just a silly form of entertainment?
“Of course I have the app, almost everyone in my sorority
does,” said Katharine Painter, a freshman at the University of Texas.
Painter explained that she downloaded the app and uses it
from time to time, but does not have the expectation of finding a boyfriend by
using it.
The creators of Tinder describe the application as “a fun
way to break the ice”. The application description is: “Tinder finds out who
likes you nearby, and connects you with them if you’re also interested. It’s
all anonymous until someone you like, likes you back.”
By connecting with your Facebook account, the application
pulls your profile picture, mutual friends, and interests and sets up your “dating
profile”. Users then have the ability to like, or dislike you, solely based on
this information.
Just by appearance, users decide if that particular person
is compatible with them.
The idea seems surprisingly shallow.
However, most 18-24 year-olds are likely to base their
relationships partly on looks. But are “looks” themselves enough to account for
the chemistry between two people?
“It isn’t like those embarrassing dating websites and it is
becoming popular on the UT campus,” said Lee Younger, a Tinder app promoter on
campus. “It’s a great way to meet new people and maybe find that special
someone.”
Being a college student herself, Younger mentioned how
overwhelming dating has been in college compared to high school.
“There are so many guys to choose from. Tinder allows me to
get matched with people whom are also interested in me.” She explained “Tinder
narrows my field.”
But how would a student who has never used the app feel
about its effectiveness?
“It seems far fetched and doesn’t seem like a good way to
meet people,” said Doug Waters, also a freshman at UT.
Waters chuckled and added that he meets people by flirting
or going to his classes.
Are college students really using this app as a way to find
that special someone, or is it just a self-esteem booster to know that the
users that you have liked have also liked you back?
“It gives me a confidence boost every time that my phone
gives me the notification that I have a new match,” said Sarah Richardson, also
a freshman at UT.
Richardson added that she doesn’t use the application
seriously and that she just enjoys getting the random alert that someone liked
her back.
Once you have been matched with someone on Tinder, you have
an option of chatting with them in the application’s private chat rooms. This
is where the application allows interaction between the two matches to find out
more about each other.
“I have actually had some decent conversations in the chat
rooms. I have met some seemingly sweet boys. One of them even asked me on a
date and I am considering going out with him,” said Caroline Hall, also a
student at UT.
But some boys have a different perspective on the correct
usage of the application.
“I just use the chat rooms to mess around with girls. Being
silly is entertaining,” said Matthew Furrow, also a freshman at UT. “Its fun
because I can chat with people I don’t know, and whom I probably won’t ever
meet.”
It seems that very few students have found this application
helpful in finding a mate, however the majority of them report having fun while
using the app. Whether it is effective or not, the unusual way that the
application works has caused many college students to download it making the
application very profitable.
Tinder may not become as famous as eHarmony, but according
to some students it has become acceptable and encouraged to use as a young
adult dating option.
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Location based match finder really helps me to seek around friends and matches near to my place, coolest feature from Tinder dating apps.
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